#TrueLoveWaits

‘Yung feeling na maging malaya, kahit papaano you survived “3-Month Rule” at starting to move forward.

‘Yung feeling na you have more time on your family and friends especially for yourself.

‘Yung feeling na pwede kang magkacrush kahit kanino at kiligin as tuwing nakikita mo siya.

‘Yung feeling na titingin ka sa crush mo, tapos napatingin siya sayo, iiwas ka at dedma lang, pero deep inside bilis ng tibok ng puso mo.

‘Yung feeling na kilig na kilig kas sa eksena sa mga movies na pinapanood mo at sa mga loveteam na nakikita mo sa TV, na kahit wala kang lovelife eh kilig na kilig ka.

‘Yung feeling na sana may “Alden” na dumating sa buhay mo at magsasabing “#ALDUByou” at “#MaALDENkita”.

‘Yung feeling na makakakita ka ng couple sa daan tapos bubulong ka ng “Walang Forever”. Tapos end of the day maiinggit ka at nakakamiss na may karelasyon.

‘Yung feeling na yung mga post sa Facebook na #RelationshipGoals eh relate na relate ka kahit wala ka namang girlfriend/boyfriend, at i-shashare mo at lalagyan mo ng #Soon at #TrueLoveWaits.

‘Yung feeling na okay naman palang maging single dahil masaya ka na sa buhay, pero minsan naiisip mo “Kailan kaya siya darating sa buhay ko?” at sisimulan mo nang bilangin ang araw para sa “Tamang Panahon”.

Hay pag-ibig, nakakabaliw!

Mas maraming perks ang pagiging single tulad ng mahahanap mo sarili mo, pwede kang lumandi nang walang nagbabawal, marami kang time sa family at friends mo at mababawasan sakit ng ulo mo. Pero hindi pa rin maiiwasan ang mainggit sa mga taong nakikita mo. ‘Yung lahat sila may boyfriend/girlfriend na, ikaw single pa rin. Hayaan mong dumating ang tamang tao para sayo. Sabi nga ni Lola Nidora “SA TAMANG PANAHON”, darating din tayo diyan (true love waits nga di ba?). Malay mo na-traffic lang sa EDSA, o kaya busy lang si God sa pagsusulat ng best love story mo. Ang pag-ibig sa tamang panahon, lahat ng bagay, pinagtitiyagaan, lahat ng bagay, pinaghihirapan, lahat ng bagay pinagsusumikapan. Mas maganda ang mga bagay na pinagtitiyagaan at dumarating sa tamang panahon. Tandaan ninyong lahat, masarap umibig, masarap ang inspirasyon, huwag lang minamadali. Lahat ng bagay, nasa tamang panahon!

#RelationshipGoals

            Habang ikaw ay single, maraming mga bagay na gusto mong gawin sa next relationship mo. Nandiyan yung mga points kung saan dapat ganito o ganyan ang magiging next boyfriend/girlfriend mo. Di ba parang nakakakilig lang, nag-set ka ng standards mo para alam mo sa sarili mo na kailangan mo muna siyang kilalanin based sa mga gusto mong standards. Nauuso ngayon ay kung tawagin ay “Relationship Goals”, pero magandang i-listdown mo lahat ng qualities/traits na gusto mo sa isang babae/lalaki. Ako honestly, ‘pag may nakita ako post sa Facebook or pictures, I saved it in my gallery and I wrote it down to my journal. Based sa mga naririnig ko and naexperienced ko na it is better to write it down and keep it in mind that there is always possibility. Ipagdasal mo rin kasi kay God yung gusto mong qualities sa isang lalaki, trust me, effective siya. Mas magandang specific, tulad ng – lalaking maalaga, mapagmahal, hindi manloloko, gwapo, etc. makakatulong yun na mahanap moa ng forever mo J

Let me share to you some of the things I want for my guy but won’t ask for:

Good morning/ Good evening texts.

Pictures taken together.

Surprises, especially little ones.

Visiting and bringing over with my favorite food.

Really long hugs.

Slow dances.

Sincere compliments.

Singing my favorite songs, even if it’s out of tune.

A cute stuffed toy to hug when he’s not around.

Real deep conversation.

Nonsense but funny conversations too.

His gentlemanliness.

Comfort and patience when I’m in tears.

Telling me how much he loves me.

A moody girlfriend needs an understanding boyfriend.

….and these boys do still exist?

A boy who is your lover and your best friend.

Having a boyfriend that motivates you is more than just a blessing.

A boy who accepts your imperfections.

A boy who loves and respects her mother.

A boy who gives you nicknames.

A boy who makes you laugh when you’re mad.

A boy who makes your day, every day.

A boy who has a sense of humor.

A boy who grants your cravings.

A boy who loves to cuddle.

A boy who gives you a piggy back ride.

A boy who loves you unconditionally.

A boy who smells good.

A boy who will never hurt your feelings.

A boy who is afraid of losing you.

A boy who plays with your hair.

A boy who will always be on your side.

A boy who keeps your secrets.

A boy who texts you first.

A boy who will stand by you forever.

A boy who cuddles you in front of his friends.

A boy who makes you forget about your insecurities.

A boy who can talk with for hours.

A boy who makes you some food.

A boy who is protective to his girl.

A boy who kiss you spontaneously.

A boy who go travels with you.

A boy who is worth the wait.

Weird girls are the cutest, but funny girls are the most beautiful.

Cute Ways to keep me HAPPY J

Make me breakfast in bed.

Always tell me you love me.

Cuddle me randomly from behind.

Give me flowers.

Be romantic.

Tell me I am beautiful.

Take me on dates.

Snuggle with me at night.

Remember small details about me.

Listen to me.

Always support and standup for me.

Be kind and sweet while I am on my period.

Never let me down.

Spend more time with me than friends.

Never break my heart.

Ang pag-ibig hindi minamadali, kahit mapasali ka sa SINGLE FOREVER SQUAD, okay lang yan, “Happy is the person who learns to wait as he prays and never loses his patience, for God’s time is the best time”.